Feeling Overwhelmed?

Learning if I have enough resources to help a disciple see growth in sexual wholeness or if I need to connect this person to an expert.

As a win-build-send missionary organization, we care deeply about meeting people where they are and connecting them with Jesus. Sometimes, due to a level of severity or specialization needed, we are not the appropriate person to address the needs.

To help you discern whether or not these resources will be sufficient and appropriate, or if it is time to partner with an expert, consider how you would answer these questions.

1. Does this person have instances of sexual abuse in their past that relate to their present struggles?
2. Is this person viewing porn multiple times per week?
3. Is this person acting out sexually with another person regularly?
4. Is their sexual activity negatively affecting their everyday life responsibilities? (relationships, school, work, etc?)
5. Did this person confess viewing or doing anything illegal?
6. Does this person’s sexual behavior seem out of control?

Answering yes to any of these questions does not mean you have to stop meeting with this person or that you can’t help them grow in their walk with God and towards sexual wholeness, but the resources and help others can provide for them may not be sufficient and you might want to consider partnering with the experts (see below).